Smooth, suave, sexy and self-assured. Are you ready for a very exciting and rewarding social life as a sugardaddy? Here are our tips on how to be a desirable sugardaddy – the sugardaddy women love and adore:
Be Rich (or at least fake it!)
Women look up to sugardaddies for their social stature and financial stability. A sugardaddy has to be the best – or at least one of the best – in whatever industry or field he may be in. You have to be the confident top dog at the reins, the alpha male, the boss. You have to show you’re in charge.
You have to have sufficient means as well. As a sugardaddy, you are expected to spend, not just for yourself but especially for your lady friend. If you’re liquid and capable money-wise, you’re on the right track. Remember: you don’t just decide to become a sugardaddy, you have to be able to afford it.
Women love a sharp-dressed man and if you’re about to become a beautiful woman’s sugardaddy, you better look good beside her. Good taste in clothing can be cultivated and since you want to be your own brand, don’t be afraid to find a style all your own. If you need good advice, hire a personal stylist. He will be able to guide you in choosing the right cut, color and trend that will bring out your looks. If you want to create an extra big splash, learn to wear white tie properly with this list – then invite your lady to a fancy white tie event. But above all, remember, you don’t have to wear a suit to look sharp – you can dress casually and still look a million bucks.
Becoming a sugardaddy does not necessarily require you to have a doctorate degree or even a Master’s degree, although that surely can’t hurt. However, knowing more than just sports stats and stock market indicators will make you a very entertaining and interesting man.
Find a subject or interest that you feel you can excel in and then learn and experience as much as you can about it. Educate yourself with subjects that have a wide appeal, such as art, architecture, politics, finance, sports, food, wine, business, entertainment, media and world affairs. Being a well-read man makes your lady friend the envy of other women. And that makes you – her sugardaddy – highly desirable and irresistible. You can find some tips to help you in this department on the Top 10 Ways To Seem Smarter Than You Are.
The best sugardaddies in the planet are those who are well-spoken – smart, articulate and witty. And they don’t even have to try too hard. Ladies like men who know how to carry a good, enticing conversation should the situation call for it.
If you want to be a highly sought-after sugardaddy, learn how to improve your conversation skills. Apply corrective measures on any speech defects you might have. A lisp, for example, can seem adorable to a few but in general, it can distract from the substance of your conversation.
An accent, on the other hand, is something you have to be careful about nurturing. Does it make you attractive or does it just make you sound funny? Change your accent only if: a) you’re uncomfortable with it, b) you haven’t been getting rave reviews about it and c) it doesn’t make you a hit with the ladies.
Even the world’s best-known sugardaddies did not become who they are overnight. If you wish to cultivate an exciting and interesting persona, learn the ways of the mysterious yet enchanting gentleman. Roughnecks, dirty-mouths, insecure losers and the uncouth do not belong in your club. You’re a cut above the rest, so show it. You might find the Top 10 Lost Rules of Etiquette helpful.
Not only should you look good with designer clothes on, you should also look good without them. Learn to live a healthy life. Find an exercise regimen that will enhance your body shape, trim away excess fat and keep yourself fit and strong. The key here is longevity – the healthier you are, the better, more capable sugardaddy you will be.
Your choice of car can make a huge difference between being sought after and avoided. No one is going to want to be taken out to the latest film premiere in a Skoda. You need to get yourself an amazing car. If it is too far outside of your budget to buy one, hire a car (but be sure to hide the rental papers and any signs in the car). If you are going for the sporty look, get a Lamborghini – if you are going to suave and sophisticated, you can’t go wrong with a Bentley.
Once you have managed to pull off all of the above tips, you will finally have a chance of taking your lady out for a meal. All of the work you put in to making yourself a man in demand will go down the gurgler if you scoff your food or behave like a pig at the table. Therefore, it is imperative that you brush up on your table manners. Fortunately for you, we have a list that can help: The Top 10 Rules For Fine Dining. Oh – and it goes without saying that you should not be going to McDonald’s for your date – find an upmarket restaurant.