Long before JFK and Bill Clinton made headlines, America’s presidents were already dabbling in affairs. The tradition of a side romance is practically a national pastime, right up there with apple pie and fireworks. Welcome to our roundup of the 10 scandalous presidential affairs you’ve probably never heard of.
10 scandalous presidential affairs uncovered
1. FDR And Eleanor Roosevelt
Franklin Roosevelt’s infidelity is fairly well‑known, but his marriage to Eleanor was a tangled web of secrets. The spark began when Lucy Mercer, hired as Eleanor’s social secretary, began an affair with FDR that quickly became the talk of Washington’s elite. Even Alice Longworth, Teddy Roosevelt’s influential daughter, arranged private rendezvous for the couple. When Eleanor uncovered love letters between her husband and Lucy, she demanded a divorce.
FDR was surprisingly open to the idea, even wishing to marry Lucy, who seemed a better match for him than Eleanor. However, his domineering mother threatened to cut off financial support, and his political mentors warned that a divorce would be a career‑killing scandal. Choosing money and ambition over love, FDR begged Eleanor for forgiveness. She agreed to stay, on the condition that he never see Lucy again— a promise he broke— and insisted they no longer share a bed.
The betrayal hit Eleanor hard. Once shy and insecure, she eventually forged a powerful identity outside her husband’s shadow. She found role models in two lesbian couples—Elizabeth Read & Esther Lape and Nancy Cook & Marion Dickerman—who showed her she could thrive independently. Over time, Eleanor transformed into a political force, with Joseph Alsop dubbing her partnership with FDR a “highly successful working partnership” rather than a conventional marriage.
Rumors later swirled about Eleanor’s own romantic entanglements, notably with reporter Lorena Hickock, a woman “sexually oriented to women.” While it’s unclear if Eleanor reciprocated Hickock’s feelings, she certainly adored her, penning affectionate notes like, “I can’t kiss you, so I kiss your picture good night and good morning!” When FDR won the presidency, Eleanor invited Hickock to live in the White House, reassuring her that gossip wouldn’t matter. Meanwhile, FDR maintained his own liaison with his live‑in assistant, Missy LeHand.
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2. James Buchanan
Before his presidency, James Buchanan was engaged to a wealthy heiress named Anne, who died suddenly just days after their broken engagement. Her family barred Buchanan from attending the funeral, blaming him for her death, and gossip suggested she had been devastated by his infidelity.
Anne’s death wasn’t the only reason Buchanan remained a bachelor. For 23 years he lived with Senator William King, not merely as a roommate but sharing a bedroom. Historians often cite this cohabitation as evidence that Buchanan was America’s first gay president.
Contemporary accounts referred to the pair in colorful terms: a congressman called them “Buchanan and his wife,” while others used nicknames like “Aunt Fancy” and “Siamese twins.” Historian James Loewen noted Buchanan’s openness about the relationship, pointing to surviving letters that reveal deep devotion. In one letter, Buchanan wrote, “I am now solitary and alone… I have gone a wooing to several gentlemen, but have not succeeded with any one of them.”
King’s correspondence echoed this sentiment: “I am selfish enough to hope you will not procure an associate who will cause you to feel no regret at our separation.” Sadly, many of their letters were destroyed by relatives, leaving the true nature of their bond shrouded in mystery.
3. George Washington
In March 1758, a young George Washington visited the newly widowed Martha Custis, the wealthiest woman in Virginia. By January 1759, they were married. Yet, a long‑forgotten letter to his former flame Sally Fairfax resurfaced in 1877, making the front page of the New York Herald.
The letter, penned while George and Martha were formally engaged, began coyly: “I profess myself a votary of love. I acknowledge that a lady is in the case and further I confess that this lady is known to you.” Washington later wrote, “Misconstrue not my meaning; doubt it not nor expose it. The world has no business to know the object of my love declared in this manner to you when I want to conceal it.”
At the time, Sally Fairfax was already married to a close friend of Washington. Her reply was deliberately vague, and the two never spoke of the affair again. In 1775, the British attempted to tarnish Washington with a forged letter alleging an affair with “Kate the washerwoman’s daughter,” but no solid evidence ever proved Washington was unfaithful to Martha after their marriage.
4. Grover Cleveland
Grover Cleveland is one of only three presidents to wed while in office, marrying Frances Folsom in 1886. The match was scandalous: Frances was 27 years younger, and Cleveland had actually bought her baby carriage. Even more controversial, she had been his ward since her father died when she was nine.
But the real shocker lay in Cleveland’s earlier life. In 1873, at age 37, he courted sales clerk Maria Halpin. On December 15, he took her out to dinner and then insisted on escorting her home. Halpin later claimed Cleveland raped her “by use of force and violence and without my consent,” threatening to ruin her if she spoke out. Six weeks later, she discovered she was pregnant.
When the child was born, Cleveland had Maria arrested and committed to an insane asylum, placing the newborn in an orphanage. The asylum’s director recognized the abuse of power and released Maria, noting she had been committed “without warrant or form of law.” The child was never returned to her mother. When the scandal surfaced, Cleveland spread rumors that Halpin was a drunk who had affairs with married men, and suggested the child was actually Oscar Folsom’s. Yet Halpin, a church‑going widow with two children, maintained that Cleveland was the father, a claim supported by Pastor Henry Crabbe, who called Cleveland “a corrupt, licentious man.”
5. Lyndon Johnson
Lady Bird Johnson once quipped, “My husband loved people. He loved all people. Now half the people in the world are women. You don’t think I could keep him away from half the world, do you?” Lyndon and Lady Bird married in November 1934, though they were stark opposites. Lyndon’s explosive ambition often clashed with Lady Bird’s shy, intellectual demeanor.
By 1937, Lyndon began an affair with Alice Glass, the wife of a major political supporter. The relationship persisted into the late 1940s, despite the risk to his career. Lady Bird, noticing Alice’s magnetic presence, blamed herself and responded by becoming more socially active, losing weight, and adopting a flashier wardrobe—while pretending ignorance of the affair.
LBJ wasn’t content with one mistress. He bragged, “I’ve had more women by accident than Kennedy ever had on purpose.” After Lady Bird walked in on him with a secretary in the Oval Office, the Secret Service installed a buzzer to alert him whenever she was nearby.
One of the few women who went public was Madeleine Brown, who claimed a 21‑year affair with LBJ. She alleged that Johnson provided her with a two‑bedroom home, a maid, credit cards, and cars, describing their encounters as “kinky” and typically lasting about thirty minutes.
6. George H.W. Bush
The Washington Post once pointedly noted that political aide Jennifer Fitzgerald had “served President‑elect George Bush in a variety of positions.” Rumors of an affair were “well‑known” among journalists, but nothing was published until 1988, when LA Weekly ran a story claiming Fitzgerald spoke openly about the relationship.
In 1992, the New York Post revived the allegations, and journalist Susan Trento’s book The Power House cited U.S. ambassador Louis Fields arranging a joint guest house for Bush and Fitzgerald during a 1988 Geneva visit. Fields allegedly confessed that “it became very clear to me that the Vice President and Mrs. Fitzgerald were romantically involved.” Trento’s husband delayed reporting the comment at Fields’s request, fearing career damage, but went public after the ambassador’s death.
The story resurfaced when unauthorized biographer Kitty Kelley repeated the claims in her 2004 book The Family. According to Kelley, longtime Republican stalwart James Baker refused to run Bush’s 1980 campaign unless Fitzgerald was removed from the picture.
Unlike most entries here, the Bush allegations remain unproven, and the Bush family has vigorously denied them. When reporter Mary Tillotson asked Bush about the affair at a live news conference, his staff reportedly erupted, vowing she would “never work around the White House again.”
7. James Garfield
While in school, James Garfield was obsessed with sex, homosexuality, and masturbation, even taking cold showers to curb his urges. Though attracted to independent women, he felt compelled to marry the “asexual wallflower” Lucretia “Crete” Rudolph, whom he met while working as a janitor at the Eclectic Institute in Hiram, Ohio. Their engagement in 1854 coincided with Garfield’s affair with the witty Rancie Selleck, a friend who knew his “sensuous” side. Crete was aware of the liaison, calling it the “keenest dagger to my heart,” and the affair lasted until 1858.
In 1862, Garfield pursued an 18‑year‑old New York Tribune reporter, Lucia Gilbert Calhoun. He also maintained a long‑term relationship with Eclectic Institute student Almeda Booth. When Crete confronted him about Booth, Garfield confessed, describing the episode as a “lawless passion.”
Garfield’s womanizing was so prolific that Crete kept herself out of the press, fearing her presence would invite accusations of infidelity. Yet the 1880 election was rocked by rumors that Garfield had visited a New Orleans prostitute.
8. Woodrow Wilson
Woodrow Wilson married artist Ellen Axon in 1885. Their marriage held steady until around 1906, when a series of personal tragedies struck: Ellen’s nephew, his wife, and their two‑year‑old son drowned, while her brother fell into severe depression. Earlier, Ellen’s father had been institutionalized and later committed suicide, adding to the family’s woes. Overwhelmed, Wilson escaped to Bermuda in 1907‑08, where he met Mary Peck.
The friendship with Mary blossomed into a “dalliance,” devastating Ellen and leaving Wilson “guilt‑stricken.” Ellen later said the Peck affair was the only unhappiness her husband ever gave her, while Wilson admitted to a “passage of folly and gross impertinence,” abandoning his “standards of honorable behavior.”
After Ellen’s death in August 1914, Wilson, unable to remain single, began seeing widow Edith Galt in early 1915. Advisors warned that the public would react poorly, and gossip intensified when the Washington Post mistakenly reported that “the President has been entering Edith Bolling Galt regularly.” A popular joke of the era asked, “What did Mrs. Galt do when the President of the United States proposed to her?” Answer: “She fell out of bed.” Despite lingering rumors about Mary Peck, Wilson married Edith later that year and was re‑elected despite the scandal.
9. Warren G. Harding
Usually regarded as a notably weak president, Warren G. Harding prized being liked over strong leadership, a trait that may explain his infamous weakness for women. His most famous liaison was with Carrie Phillips, which began in 1905 while both were married (Harding was actually good friends with Carrie’s husband). Their steamy love letters were opened to the press in 2014.
During the 1920 presidential campaign, the Republican National Committee essentially bribed Carrie and her husband to stay out of sight, sending them on a free Asian tour with $20,000 in cash.
That’s not a bad deal, but several of Harding’s other lovers fared worse. Before his affair with Carrie ended, Harding took up with Nan Britton, a campaign volunteer 30 years his junior. Nan gave birth to a baby girl in 1919; Harding had the Secret Service hand‑deliver child‑support payments. After his death, Nan sued the estate for a trust fund, losing the case, but she later penned a tell‑all, The President’s Daughter, dedicated “to all unwed mothers.” The book scandalized the nation with vivid accounts of wild escapades, including sex in the Oval Office closet.
Harding’s roster of flings also included a Washington Post employee named Miss Allicott and chorus girls Maize Haywood and Blossom Jones. Two other women claimed to have conceived children by Harding (one had a son, another terminated a pregnancy). There was also a “violent” affair during his Senate years with staffer Grace Cross. Harding didn’t bother hiding his affairs, telling a private group of reporters, “It’s a good thing I am not a woman. I would always be pregnant. I can’t say no.”
10. Dwight D. Eisenhower
Dwight D. Eisenhower is celebrated as one of America’s most successful military leaders, serving as Supreme Commander of the Allied invasion of Europe during World War II. The prolonged separations from his wife, Mamie, during the war may have sparked whispers of an affair back in Washington.
Photos often show Ike close to his secretary‑driver Kay Summersby, sometimes standing a little too near. After years of emotional intimacy, the pair allegedly consummated their relationship in spring 1944. According to Summersby, Ike was actually impotent, confessing that marriage had “killed something” in him, forcing her to take the lead and teach him about sex during their trysts.
When the war ended, Ike formally requested General Marshall to relieve him of duty so he could divorce Mamie and marry Kay. An outraged Marshall refused, threatening to ruin Ike’s career should the divorce proceed. Consequently, the affair ended, only surfacing publicly in 1975 when Kay, after Ike’s death, published a book detailing their relationship.