Even in its darkest moments, history is awash with heroes, and among the most surprising are those who carried out 10 acts kindness while standing on the side that history usually condemns. The men and women of the French Resistance, the civilians who sheltered Tutsis in Rwanda, the people who marched for civil rights in the 1960s … all of them are rightly celebrated today for shaping a better world. Yet, occasionally, individuals whose uniforms or affiliations placed them on the “wrong” side still found the courage to do the right thing.
10 Acts Kindness in Unexpected Places
10. The Hungarian Nazi Who Saved Jewish Lives
On paper, Zoltan Kubinyi reads more like a fictional anti‑hero than a real person. This Hungarian Nazi officer also happened to be a Seventh‑Day Adventist and a conscientious objector, which meant he refused to carry a weapon even while supervising forced‑labor battalions. While a dramatic tale might end with Kubinyi being overthrown by his own prisoners, real life delivered a far more touching narrative.
From the instant he assumed command of the local labor camp, Kubinyi let his humanity shine. Where other Nazis abused their charges, he permitted the prisoners to observe Jewish holidays and even fasted alongside them on Yom Kippur. Where other camp commanders let the weak starve, he slipped extra rations to the needy. The climax arrived when high command ordered his prisoners shipped to the gas chambers. As the Third Reich crumbled, Kubinyi marched his men into Hungary, doing everything he could to hide them from fellow Nazis.
The operation was fraught with danger. At one point, a group of Hungarian policemen identified the men as Jews and prepared to ship them to Germany. Kubinyi, ever the improviser, plied the officers with alcohol and watched them fall asleep, allowing his men to slip away. He guided the group to a town occupied by the Red Army, thereby saving their lives.
We wish we could stop the story there, but there is one final act. Despite his heroic rescue work, Kubinyi was seized by the Russians, deported to Siberia, and died in undeserved anonymity. Today he is listed among the Righteous Among the Nations, a testament to his humanity triumphing over ideology.
9. The Anonymous Serbs Who Saved Their Muslim Neighbors
In July 1995, Bosnian‑Serbian troops stormed Srebrenica, a tiny enclave of peace amid the Balkan nightmare. What followed was the worst civilian massacre in Europe since World War II, with over 7,000 Muslim boys and men executed and countless others shelled while fleeing. Yet even in this moral wasteland, tiny flickers of humanity could still be found.
One such flicker came courtesy of an anonymous Serb soldier identified a decade later by the New York Times. Ordered to remove elderly Muslim men from a group of female refugees for later execution, he recognized two neighbors who had treated him kindly as a child. Defying a direct order, he allowed those two men to stay with the women, and as a result they survived while nearly everyone else perished.
These interventions were not limited to Srebrenica. In Brčko, a Serb police officer known only as “Pero” saved a local Muslim family from a concentration camp by forging official papers—not once, but twice—before finally deserting the Serb forces after the family escaped the country.
Searching further reveals dozens of similar stories, such as a Serb who sacrificed his own life to rescue a Muslim friend. The quiet bravery of these individuals stands as a stark contrast to the surrounding carnage.
8. The Slavers Who Became The Earliest Emancipators
The slave‑owning plantations of the American South were inhuman, with slaves tortured, abused, and sometimes left to starve. Yet not every slave‑owner was a Calvin Candie clone. Among the legion of scumbags, a precious few saw the error of their ways.
Chief among them was Robert Carter III, a wealthy Virginia plantation owner who amassed a fortune on slave labor but experienced an unexpected change of heart in the 1770s. He and his wife spontaneously decided to free their slaves.
The decision was astonishingly strange for the era, and Carter recognized its difficulty. Facing pressure from pro‑slavery sons‑in‑law and neighboring plantation owners fearing a statewide rebellion, he limited himself to freeing a total of fifteen slaves each year. In some cases, this meant a slave could wait over fifty years to be emancipated.
Despite the slowness of his operation and evidence that he acted partly to simplify his own life, Carter’s actions still smacked of decency. Unlike other former owners, Carter didn’t overcharge his freed slaves to lease land or burden them with debt. He also wrote a specific stipulation into his will that prevented his sons‑in‑law from undoing his good work after his death.
He wasn’t the only Southerner to act this way. In South Carolina, Rev. William Henry Brisbane suffered a Damascene conversion in the 1830s, moved north, freed his slaves, and became an ardent abolitionist, even though the choice left him near poverty. Across the Atlantic, former slaver John Newton turned his back on the trade and emerged as a leading light of the abolition movement.
7. The Anti‑Apartheid Afrikaners
As the architects of South African apartheid, Afrikaners are today widely associated with racism. Although a whites‑only referendum eventually brought down minority rule, many assume (in some cases correctly) that this was due to international pressure. Yet several Afrikaners made it their life’s mission to create an integrated South Africa.
Most prominent was Frederik van Zyl Slabbert. Son of conservative, pro‑apartheid parents, he nonetheless grew up to become one of the government’s biggest critics. In 1985, he publicly resigned from office over a crackdown on black activists. In 1987, he led a white delegation to Senegal to meet the ANC leadership, a move that branded him a traitor back home.
Some went even further. Former Afrikaner nationalist Bram Fischer defended Nelson Mandela in court and served a life sentence for his anti‑apartheid activities. Others courted censorship and emergency laws for publishing anti‑apartheid newspapers in Afrikaans or attending demonstrations. Although most of their stories are today forgotten, they were a key part in helping Mandela win his decades‑long struggle.
6. The Moderate Hutus Against Rwanda’s Genocide
Over the course of 100 days in 1994, ethnic Hutus in Rwanda slaughtered between 800,000 and one million Tutsis, a killing spree more efficient than the Holocaust. You’ve probably heard of Paul Rusesabagina, the Hutu who saved thousands of lives by turning his hotel into an impromptu refugee camp. What you might not know is that he wasn’t alone. Even as the country fell into a vortex of violence, dozens of Hutus risked life and limb to save their Tutsi neighbors.
In the countryside, elderly Hutu Sula Karuhimbi turned her farm into a haven for twenty Tutsis fleeing the violence. When death squads knocked, she marched straight out, declared herself a witch, and threatened to unleash a hideous curse on anyone who entered her property. Incredibly, this desperate bluff worked, and militias spared her farm.
Elsewhere, a man known only as Yahaya risked his entire family’s life to shelter a single Tutsi girl, openly defying the local death squads by quoting the Quran at them. Others personally walked refugees all the way to Zaire, ventured into the killing fields to deliver medical supplies, or even tried to arrest the death‑squad leaders. Although many were murdered for helping their neighbors, together they saved thousands of Tutsis. Today, whole families are alive because of their courageous efforts.
5. The Former FARC Guerrillas Clearing Colombia’s Land Mines
Since 1964, the Colombian state has been fighting a three‑way civil war against leftist rebels, FARC, and extreme‑right paramilitaries. All three sides have been accused of war crimes, with FARC’s land mines and the paramilitaries’ murder of journalists being among the most prominent. Yet even as the war drags on into its 51st year, there are signs of hope. A small group of former FARC guerrillas are now trying to clear the country of the very explosives they helped plant.
Headed up by former child soldiers, the movement has become so popular that even active FARC members are now joining its ranks. Working without maps, the rebels enter fields known to be mined and personally remove the improvised bombs, which are typically made from metal cans stuffed with syringes. It’s grueling work, but it’s already making a difference.
The Colombian government is considering using the group’s work as a pilot for a national, post‑conflict scheme. With an estimated 800,000 Colombians at risk from land mines daily, their efforts have the potential to save thousands of lives.
4. The Anti‑Fascist Sudeten Germans
Even by 1930s standards, the Sudeten Germans were notably fascist. A group of three million Germans living in the Sudetenland of Czechoslovakia were extremely pro‑Nazi. When Hitler rolled into the area in 1938, they lined the streets to cheer him on. Under the Third Reich, they helped exterminate some 300,000 Czechs. Yet even among this group, a handful still risked everything to oppose the German state.
Chief among them were the Sudeten communists. Violently opposed to Hitler’s fascist state, these ethnic Germans worked with Moscow to distribute anti‑Nazi propaganda at a time when such activities could earn you a one‑way ticket to the nearest death camp. Although the propaganda probably had little effect on the war’s outcome, it showed that a small number of Sudeten Germans had the courage to stand up to the Nazi war machine.
Brave as it was, this pales against the activities of the most famous Sudeten German of all. In 1935, Oskar Schindler had been a fervent Nazi, spying against the Czechoslovak state for Berlin. By 1942, he was working desperately to save Jewish lives and sabotage the Nazi war effort, a change of heart that inspired one of the most notable war films of all time.
When the war ended, most of these Sudeten anti‑fascists were violently expelled from Czechoslovakia along with the pro‑Nazis. Today, their fate remains a sticking point between German and Czech relations.
3. The Factory Owner Who Helped Britain’s Poor
During the Industrial Revolution, most of Britain’s factories and mills were places of utter misery. Children were used as slave labor, adults were forced into slums, and the average factory owner was a Dickensian stereotype. With the exception, that is, of Robert Owen. A Welsh capitalist who took over the New Lanark cotton mill in Scotland in 1799, Owen was determined to create a utopia for his workers.
Under Owen’s control, the New Lanark mill put into practice policies a century ahead of their time. Workers had access to free nursery care, and children received a formal education 70 years before the UK introduced compulsory schooling. Housing was subsidized and cleanliness was encouraged, leading to an utter absence of the slums that sprang up around every other mill or factory.
Best of all, Owen even moved to smash the much‑hated truck system. Since the 16th century, the truck system paid employees in tokens that could only be spent at the company store. The company then charged exorbitant rates for merchandise, keeping workers poor. Under Owen’s stewardship, the New Lanark store sold items at little more than wholesale cost, so workers rarely wanted for anything. Far from being a stereotypical industrialist, Owen improved the lives of hundreds of ordinary people.
2. The Good Nazi Who Saved A City
We’ve briefly mentioned John Rabe before, but his inspiring story deserves a closer look. Hitler’s man in Nanking when the city fell to the Japanese army, Rabe was an ardent Nazi steeped in eugenics theory. This only makes his actions more exceptional. Faced with a rampaging Imperial Army hacking Chinese civilians to death with machetes, Rabe quietly decided to put his ideology to one side and become a hero.
Although ordered to leave the city for his safety, Rabe instead assembled a loose group of a dozen German and American expats and charged them with creating an “international zone.” As the Japanese troops raped and looted their way across Nanking, he and his group set about protecting the 250,000 Chinese who fled to the zone. Without even so much as a pistol to defend himself with, Rabe patrolled the city’s streets, facing down gangs of soldiers and stopping them from raping women. He dug foxholes in his own garden and sheltered another 650 civilians there. He kept this display of courage up for four whole months.
By the time the Japanese left, Nanking was in ruins. Thousands had died. But the international zone had pulled through. It’s thought today that this staunch supporter of Hitler may have saved as many as 250,000 lives. Although he was arrested as a Nazi loyalist after the war and died in misery, he has an especially fitting tribute today: A whole generation of children in Nanking are named “Rabe.”
1. The Forgotten Chinese Soldiers
After what we’ve just read about Nanking, it might seem incredible to think Chinese soldiers who fought the Japanese could have been on the wrong side of history. For that, you can thank the Chinese Civil War.
A series of intermittent battles between the nationalist KMT and the Communist CCP blew up in 1927 and lasted right up until the Japanese invaded. With a common enemy now occupying their cities, the KMT and CCP joined forces until the end of World War II. At that point, they went right back to killing each other. Things only ended with the rise to power of Chairman Mao and the mass exodus of the KMT to Taiwan, where they set up their own government. Unfortunately, several of their members got left behind.
Today, the surviving KMT soldiers in China are in a strange position. Despite having fought the Japanese at every turn, despite having lost limbs defending their country, and despite having saved countless civilian lives, they’re considered a source of shame by the government. Robbed of pensions, their names nowhere to be found on commemorative plaques, they instead grow old and die tucked away from public sight. Many of them still carry the label of war criminals, a status forced on them during the Communist Cultural Revolution that tried to stamp out all remaining KMT support. Those who avoided that fate often choose to remain anonymous, scared of digging up their nationalist past.
The result is a whole class of soldiers who fought the Japanese in World War II but have now been scrubbed from history. In its own sad way, that might be even worse than being remembered for fighting on the wrong side.